What is your idea of a perfect date?
Dates, Dates, Dates!
Dates - the start of friendships,
relationships and sometimes even love. But what makes a good date? What makes a
perfect date? Is there even such a thing as a perfect date? In this article I interview
2 men, 1 woman and I also answer the questions myself to see how different
peoples idea of a ‘perfect date’ really is and just how differently men and
woman think when it comes to romance.
The Men
Name: Joe
Age: 21
Interests: Rugby, Socialising and Music
Name: Lee
Age: 21
Interests: Football, PlayStation
,Technology.
Where will the date be/ what
venue and why?
Joe: Reasonably
classy, that we could have a meal, but not too expensive. I would not want to
seem like I’m trying to show off. However I would need to be nice enough to
give off a good impression, and have a good atmosphere so the conversation can
flow easily.
Lee: Going for meal first somewhere not overcrowded
which serves food we both enjoy which is neither too cheap nor expensive before
going cinema. I don’t want to give off the impression that I’m trying
too hard and not being myself.
Who will pay and why?
Joe: I
would pay, however I would not like the girl to expect me to pay. I would pay
because I would want to treat the girl as it was a date.
Lee:
I would pay, however if they wanted to split
the bill between the two of us then I would happily oblige. I would like to pay
as I want to treat the girl but if she prefers to split the bill then we shall
do that.
What will be the topic of conversation and
why?
Joe: I would not set a topic of
conversation, would just get to know them better and try and make it relaxed so
we could both feel comfortable and enjoy the date.
Lee: I would maybe start with just getting to know
her slowly and let her ask any questions she wanted to. I don’t want any fixed
topic as I don’t want anything to seem awkward but instead for the conversation
to keep flowing.
What would be the best thing that
your date could do/say during the date?
Joe: Just enjoy the night and smile a
lot. Making a girl laugh would be important to me but if they were able to open
up in a more serious way it would be amazing as well.
Lee: Would like to see that she is
smiling and laughing in my company and that she is enjoying the time out with
me.
What will be the end result/ what
will happen at the end of the date?
Joe: Drive the girl home, walk her to
the door and say goodbye with either a hug or a kiss on the cheek. If was more
of a kiss it would be good, however I would not be overly bothered.
Lee: Would walk her home and say that
I hoped she enjoyed herself and if she wanted to maybe do something again
sometime soon before saying goodbye, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug. If
it was more than a kiss on the cheek I wouldn’t be too bothered but would still
be happy.
When asked ‘what is your idea of
the perfect date?’ most people instantly answer with a venue or a place…do you
agree that this is the key to the ideal date and why?
Joe-Lee: Not at all, being with the right girl is much
more important than where you go. Can still have a great time regardless of the
location or how much you spend.
The Women
Name : Catherine
Age: 21
Interests: Socialising , Football and
Arts/Crafts
Where will
the date be/ what venue and why?
Catherine: A
sociable restaurant or bar, where we can get to know each other, have good
conversation and enjoy some good food.
2) Who will
pay and why?
Catherine: I
will offer to split the bill. I do not like men paying for me, and believe it’s
fair to split the bill.
3) What will
be the topic of conversation and why?
Catherine: Anywhere
that the conversation leads, as long as it flows. I would like to talk about our interests and see
how much we have in common.
What
would be the best thing that your date could do/say during the date?
They
would have to have a sense of humour and probably make me smile. If they can
make me smile and make me laugh then I will have a good date.
What will be the end result/ what will happen
at the end of the date?
Catherine: I
would say goodbye to him with a hug or kiss if the date went well and we would
arrange a second date.
When asked
‘what is your idea of the perfect date?’ most people instantly answer with a
venue or a place…do you agree that this is the key to the ideal date and why?
Catherine: Definitely
not, I believe that it is a combination of common interests, a spark and good
conversation. It doesn’t matter if we are on a beach or in a bar, as long as we
can communicate well it would be a good date for me.